I took my sling in the other day, just to see if Fergus might like it... he loved it. It felt so good to me to use the same sling that I've carried most of my children in, including Fergus, and have him melt into the fabric.
His back is still really tight and usually arches to the side a bit. He is relaxing more easily now, but even when relaxed his back is very tight. The nurses at Ranken Jordan have worked on trying to figure out what he likes and how to keep him from 'storming'. When he storms, he arches his back and takes a long time to calm down. They have figured out that he doesn't handle change very well. If we talk slow and softly to him while slowly moving his body, then he doesn't seem to get as upset. He also appreciates gentle, steady pressure instead of quick movements. He loves to see our faces and hear us talk calmly.
A few questions have been asked about us as a family. Ian, George, and Rose are all wishing to return to home - where they have their own space and everything is familiar. We are all tired of living out of suitcases. Please pray for us as a family: for unity, peace, direction, and stability. We need to be close to Fergus and continue life at the same time. We are trying to figure out what we need to do. Fergus will probably be needing the help at Ranken Jordan for a long time (yet no one knows how long).
We wanted to thank you for meeting our needs practically. The financial support you've graciously extended to us has given us a buffer while seeing life through tears and whirlwinds of emotions. Your prayers, love, and kindness have been pillars of strength to us over this time.
May God have mercy on our son and soothe his nerves, calm his fears, restore peace and grant abundant life.
esther and matt
Thursday, April 23, 2009
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Esther, I am so glad to hear that Fergus is responding positively to you holding him. We love you all and are still praying! Cathy & David Lockerby
ReplyDeletei'm praying for you guys. God is holding you all in His arms. -i'm christine's sister (christine is one of deberoah's friends) :)
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